It has been a very interesting time in the last few months since I wrote about the issues I had to go through in clearing out my grandmother’s house after her passing. A lot has happened. For one, I’m no longer in Germany. Yes, after over 8 years, the time came to move. This is the biggest thing of all. Of course, leaving from a place that I thought of as home and now being back in the states is a big deal.
I have so many things to write about that deal with that move. It’s going to be lot to go back through in my mind and put down. I’m really looking forward to it all, I guess. With all of that being said. I need to recap and actually do a part II of the process of clearing out the house. That means I get to do an Aftermath Part II, hence the title of this lovely writing. If you need a refresher, you can always go here.
First, let me say taking care of the house and getting the things that got I done wasn’t easy. It really left me sad, frustrated, lost, and frankly I just wanted to say fuck it. You really get to understand and find out what you are really made of in times like this. You really get to bond and see who is there for you. Who has good ideas. You also are able to see what people you want to have on your side and those you can do without.
So what happened with everything, you may ask? Well, I was able to actually get the house completely empty. Let me tell you the best thing you want to do is have an estate sale. If you don’t know what an estate sale is, well, it is the best thing you can do to free your soul and your house of things. As I mentioned before my grandmother had a lot of stuff. Way too much stuff. The task of clearing it out and trying to sale things on my own wasn’t going to be possible. Enter in the estate sale plan.
If you do a search of an estate sales, you will find out that there is a decent amount. I even found out that friends of friends are doing these things. When it comes to doing one of these, you really want to have the best. I’m happy that my dad knows a lot of people. He was able to get me in touch with one of his friends that is a real estate agent. She then was able to point me in the right direction. I do have to say, you still want to do the reading of what you want, but its good to have someone that also can give you more insight. This is not something you want to do alone. You need some sort of a team for this.
One of the main things that you want to do when dealing with the idea of doing an estate sale is interviewing multiple people. My dads’ friend was able to get me in touch with a lady that she knew. She was able to present me with her plan. It was all very interesting, however, let me tell you. When it comes to having someone sale the items that meant so much to you and your family. You have to have the feeling that the person is the right person. Unfortunately, I didn’t have that feeling. I had heard that there was another person, that was the best of the best. I wanted the best of the best.
I should mention I did all of this in the last few days I was in the states. Not something I really wanted to do, but it is what it is. I just knew that we had to get rid of things in the house. I went with Bernard Davis. This is someone who has done estate sales for almost 20 years. He came over the house, he walked through, then told me how everything works. Unfortunately, there were a lot of hiccups in everything that was supposed to be done. One of the main ones is the fact that being overseas and you are trying to move back to the states, not a great time to have your estate sale person cancel on you with a misunderstanding. Its also not good to have your future renters try to mark way too many things as not being for sale, when you are supposed to be doing a full sale.
With all of that, Bernard came through. We were able to get the house completely empty. Something I never thought could ever happen, but it did! Now we are onto a new chapter. This is the fact that I have a house to take care of. I’m old enough to do this, but I still am amazed at the fact that this is something I’m doing now. Luckily, I have my mom and stepdad to help me with a lot. I frankly don’t know what I would do without them. We have a lot to do down the road.
Now, I’m back in the states. Its strange to not be enjoying everything German these past few months, but it is also somewhat nice to be back. There are a lot of stories to come. Not to mention a lot of lonely times and frustration. I guess its all the fun you are supposed to enjoy when you are becoming and are an adult. Have I mentioned, I really don’t like it.
Keep moving forward.
That’s the plan!